
Hi Dolls & Daves!
As a preppy goth living in a sunny world, Thanksgiving is my Super Bowl. It’s that perfect time of year when the veil is thin, the air is crisp (well, as crisp as it gets here), and we collectively turn our attention to one specific frequency: Gratitude.
But if you’ve been reading my blog, you know I can’t just look at this as a holiday of turkey and dressing. I look at it through the systems I study: Machine Learning and Magick.
Surprisingly, when it comes to Thanksgiving, these two systems are running the exact same code.

The Magic: Invoking Jupiter
In the esoteric tradition, gratitude isn’t just a polite “thank you.” It is a summoning spell. It falls under the domain of Jupiter, the planet of expansion, abundance, and growth.
The hermetic principle here is simple: What you focus on expands. When you actively express gratitude, you are essentially casting a Jupiterian circle, signaling to the universe, “I value this. Send me more of this.” It is an energy that multiplies whatever it touches.

The Tech: Reinforcement Learning
Now, let’s swap the grimoire for a textbook on Neural Networks. In Machine Learning, we have a concept called Reinforcement Learning. This is how an AI learns to make better decisions. When the model does something right, we give it a “reward” signal. This positive reinforcement updates the model’s weights, making it more likely to repeat that behavior in the future.
Your brain is the neural network. Your reality is the output.
When you practice gratitude, you are essentially acting as the Data Scientist for your own life. You are labeling your dataset.
- The delicious meal? Label:
POSITIVE_SIGNAL - The laughter with friends? Label:
POSITIVE_SIGNAL - The chaotic political argument? Label:
NOISE_IGNORE
If you spend the holiday fixating on the stress (the noise), you are training your internal model to look for stress. You are overfitting on the bad data.
But if you use the holiday to aggressively label the joy, you are updating your weights. You are training your reticular activating system (your brain’s algorithm) to scan the world for abundance and opportunity.

The Protocol: A Thanksgiving Script
So, how do we apply this? We don’t need a complex ritual. We just need to run the code. Here is a simple “Gratitude Algorithm” you can run this Thursday:
- Input: Identify three specific “data points” from the last year that you want to see more of (e.g., a specific creative win, a moment of peace, a connection).
- Process: Verbalize them. Speak them out loud at the table or write them down. In magic, the spoken word (Logos) helps manifest the thought into reality.
- Output: Feel the emotion. In ML, the strength of the “reward signal” matters. Intellectual gratitude is weak code; emotional gratitude is high-performance computing.

This Thanksgiving, enjoy the food and the company, but remember: you are the architect of your own experience. Treat your gratitude like the precious training data it is.
Happy Thanksgiving, witches and techies. May your bandwidth be high and your blessings be many.

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